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We used to have a much more regular teatime practice than we do now (something that makes me sad when I think about it, but am giving myself grace for the season we're in) and one of the tricks I utilized to make it happen was doing it before bedtime. I feel like many/most of the photos of poetry teatime depict daylight hours -- which makes sense especially if you're doing it as part of homeschool -- but in the winter, my kids have a cup of tea before bed multiple times a week anyway and one night I was like, why is this not poetry teatime? There are so many ways to "be successful" at poetry teatime, especially if you define success in the beautiful way you did: communicating to your kids that "they are worth your time, they’re deserving of dignity, and your family values enjoying beautiful things together." That's so great.

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I used to work with the elderly, and we had a weekly teatime with a gently guided discussion (I would ask a question and let it go wherever it wanted to go). These were some of my most treasured and memorable times with them; I learned a lot about the generations that came before us. There is so much we can learn about people if we set aside unhurried time to talk and listen.

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