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Sarah Miller's avatar

What a great post, Hope. The theme of my entire LIFE is "Mom isn’t falling apart" -- I rarely do extra things for my family (much less anyone else) that completely deplete me, because what's the point of that, exactly? -- but even I need this reminder when it comes to holidays. I do what I do because I enjoy it, but some years, I can't pull it off in the same way I have in the past or meet my own expectations, and it never feels good. After skipping the annual Easter egg hunt I host on our property last year because I was just too exhausted, this year I had the opportunity to ask myself if it was something I actually wanted to do again -- to spend the time, money, effort, and energy to do all the things that requires -- rather than just go ahead with it, on auto-pilot. It's hard when my kids -- and other kids in our life -- enjoy a tradition that I just can't make happen sometimes, because I feel like I'm letting them down, but I try to remind myself that if I do it enough years -- not necessarily *every* year -- that that's good enough. Making memories isn't about perfection (and neither is being a good mother, for that matter).

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Shelli Virtue's avatar

My favorite part was the quote at the bottom "Love is the Best Tradition."

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